Question your dreams.

Question your dreams.

What I mean is question the story behind them, question the fantasy that you have “ weaved” around them. For instance: I want to a doctor.

Then the story; fantasy around it is  “ I can’t wait to be a doctor, when I become one, it’ll be so great so fun, I’ll get all the girls, or I’ll finally be complete, or I’ll be respected, or I’ll finally show them , I’ll finally shut my parents up, or I’ll be a success etc….. whatever the story may be. You need  to dis-identify with it you will feel as if you are losing “ something”. Like if I don’t “ Want” , or I ‘m not looking  forward to becoming a doc, I’m not going to want to do it anymore, or to be it anymore, I need my dream to push me. Is that true? .. No it is not. Indeed “ your dream” , “ your wanting” will push you , but you will miss the point. Your entire state of being will be in stressed, waiting or absent mode. I’ll be HAPPY there…..you will say. If you remove the story behind it if it is your passion you will still follow it but without many of the mental junks associated with it, like you had before. You start being present here, happy here, and find that girl now not “ when you are done”, or realize that you don’t need to receive your parents approval to be, or you don’t need to “ show them” ….etc…. a very deep emotional and mental weight will fall, then you will do what you do if you still want to do it in a more relax, healthy way. Not filled with tension, or bitterness or stressed etc…like you would have before. I mean in the case of a diploma in medical science for instance it is 5 years and up, spending all that time, bitter or mentally waiting( tensed), just so “ shut” someone up for instance is “ a lot of mental pain”.  Instead start shutting yourself up first, let go of all of it Now, so that you can Be.

And once you question the story behind any dream if the dream wasn’t authentic to you, it falls away and suddenly don’t feel the need to “ go for it” anymore. If it is true to you, it’ll stay, but some of the “ wanting” and the fantasies around it would vanish, so it’ll be Lighter, clearer, less cumbersome and you would have stepped back slightly from it.

Although I mainly took the case of “ bad stories” behind your dream. It is the same for “ the happiest fantasy ever”… I can’t wait then …I’ll have this ..that ..be this and …that …. It doesn’t change a thing. You are still fully identified to a story still fantasizing way too much. Spirit is still trapped In “ thoughts forms in your head” , release Spirit, release Energy, release LIFE. And suddenly you will be more here, more alive, more present, more sane. Less lost in thoughts, less blind, less deaf, less tasteless, you will “ breathe” again, you will “ smell” again. You will suffocate less. You will wheeze less, experience less panting. Less fantasizing, less in the clouds, less dreaming and actually way more discernment and wisdom as you will not be seeing the world through your distorted, delusional lens.